Turns On When they speak to me quietly and calmly Gentle compliments (especially if they are not said harshly) When they don’t rush me and give me time to get used to it Kind words and attention without pressure When a person stays and just writes, even if I am silent out of embarrassment Warm attitude and when I feel like I can relax a little If they treat me with care in private, then I open up much more
Turns Off When they immediately start being rude and demanding When they write too straightforwardly and harshly, especially in the first minutes When they rush me and don’t let me get used to the camera Loud, harsh messages and pressure When they ignore that I'm shy and continue to insist Rudeness and commands to “do it now” - this immediately shuts me down
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